It can be very easy to get sideline about PROTECTING oneself when it comes to SEX, the TEMPTATION is very great and we are HORMONALLY inclined to indulge ourselves. However, one only has to look around at the broken relationships and ruined lives because of H. I. V. / A. I. D. S. and recognize that WE need to take how WE have SEX serious. There is NEW feature of SEXIST POZ on BGC and I had to write this entry because it did my HEART some good to see such a thing on a site such as this. These MEN are the TESTAMENT to all and FINALLY a face is placed on this disease. THIS IS SUCH A GREAT MOVE BECAUSE THIS WILL DEFINITELY HIT THOSE OF USE THAT ARE STILL IN DENIAL. This is the kind of LIBERATION that the COMMUNITY needs to face itself. For far too long we act as if this disease is a myth and it does not affect anyone. Not only does BGC highlight these MEN, it HONORS them as well, showing that they are very much ALIVE and are still VIABLE options for LIFETIME partners. BGC makes US realize that we ALL have been asleep and for far too long we have been missing the magnificence of the community by NOT accepting those that WE deemed DAMN or DAMAGED. Well that is outdated and if WE inhale slowly and consciously enough, it is almost as if we are drinking in the elixir formed in the boundary between TRUTH and LIES. THANK YOU BGC!